There's a couple of threads already on the topic. For example: http://edublogs.org/forums/topic.php?id=6945
Open up the Post for editing and change autostart= from true to false. If you're using the Visual editor, that's the one with the icons along the top, you may have to grab a copy of the ebbed code again.
Hope this helps,
-drmike
Is there a way to not have the video start playing as soon as you click on your blog? This seems to happen only on my edublogs tv videos.
http://hharveyir.edublogs.org/
Thanks for any suggestions.